Code of Conduct
Welcome to a space built for connection, empathy, and truth. This is a community for a club no one wanted to join, so let’s make it the best it can be. These guidelines are here to ensure that everyone feels seen, heard, and respected.
Be Kind and Empathetic
Remember that everyone here is navigating their own unique journey of grief. Before you post, ask yourself: Is this coming from a place of kindness? Is it empathetic? This forum is for sharing and supporting, not for judging or giving unsolicited advice.
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No "Fix-it" Advice: We're here to listen, not to lecture. Please avoid telling others what they "should" do or how they "should" feel. We are a space for validation, not platitudes.
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Validate, Don't Minimise: Phrases like "at least..." have no place here. Acknowledge the pain and experiences of others without comparing or diminishing them.
Share Honestly, but Thoughtfully
We welcome all the messy, complicated, and yes, even the sometimes-hilarious parts of your journey. This is a space for authenticity. However, please be mindful of the impact of your words. Avoid overly graphic details or triggering content that may harm others. If you're discussing a sensitive topic, it's helpful to include a content warning in your post title.
Respect Privacy
This is a private, safe space. What's shared here should stay here. Please do not share any personal information from the forum outside of this group. Respect the confidentiality of other members and the stories they share.
No Self-Promotion or Soliciting
This community is a free space for peer-to-peer support. Please do not use it to promote your business, products, services, or social media pages. This includes fundraising requests.
Play Nice
We have a zero-tolerance policy for hate speech, bullying, harassment, or personal attacks of any kind. This includes comments based on race, gender, religion, sexual orientation, disability, or any other personal characteristic. Disagreements may arise, but they must always be handled with respect.
Our Final Word
We are all in this together. This is your space to grieve, grow, vent, and connect. By following these simple rules, we can ensure this remains a place of light on some of our darkest days. Thank you for being a part of this community.