Code of Conduct

Remember that everyone here is navigating their own unique journey of grief. Before you post, ask yourself: Is this coming from a place of kindness? Is it empathetic? This forum is for sharing and supporting, not for judging or giving unsolicited advice.

• No "Fix-it" Advice: We're here to listen, not to lecture. Please avoid telling others what they "should" do or how they "should" feel. We are a space for validation, not platitudes.

• Validate, Don't Minimise: Phrases like "at least..." have no place here. Acknowledge the pain and experiences of others without comparing or diminishing them.

We welcome all the messy, complicated, and yes, even the sometimes-hilarious parts of your journey. This is a space for authenticity. However, please be mindful of the impact of your words. Avoid overly graphic details or triggering content that may harm others. If you're discussing a sensitive topic, it's helpful to include a content warning in your post title.

This is a private, safe space. What's shared here should stay here. Please do not share any personal information from the forum outside of this group. Respect the confidentiality of other members and the stories they share.

This community is a free space for peer-to-peer support. Please do not use it to promote your business, products, services, or social media pages. This includes fundraising requests.

We have a zero-tolerance policy for hate speech, bullying, harassment, or personal attacks of any kind. This includes comments based on race, gender, religion, sexual orientation, disability, or any other personal characteristic. Disagreements may arise, but they must always be handled with respect.

We support one another to make our own choices, ask questions, and give informed consent when sharing personal information or taking part in activities.

We aim to prevent harm by offering good advice, clear information, and a space where concerns can be raised early.

Any response to a concern will be calm, measured and the least intrusive option needed to keep someone safe.

We look out for those who may be more vulnerable or in greater need, ensuring they receive appropriate support and representation.

We work together with local services, families and communities to find the right support and solutions when safeguarding issues arise.

We are committed to being open, transparent and clear about how safeguarding concerns are handled within the group.

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Keeping yourself safe & raising concerns

Members are encouraged to keep themselves safe, respect personal boundaries, and share any safeguarding concerns with group organisers as soon as possible so support can be offered.

We are all in this together. This is your space to grieve, grow, vent, and connect. By following these simple rules, we can ensure this remains a place of light on some of our darkest days. Thank you for being a part of this community.