Moving forward
I am just over 3 years in to this awful journey… lately I’ve been really craving human connection. I was only 52 when I lost my husband, and I know he’d want me to be happy. I just don’t know where to start with apps. I joined chapter 2 last week but there doesn’t seem to be that many younger folks on there. I’m nervous to sign up and pay for more public random sites like match. Anyone got any advice?
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Anja - relate to this. Two years and did some “app research” - boy it’s a steep learning curve! My experience is that it’s all free until tou want to start interacting - messages, likes, etc. And after you shell out - I was bemused by “are these ladies actually serious?”. Seems for most it’s a bit like browsing a catalogue - then put it down and do something else. I have talked to a couple of ladies - seems the bloke side is not much better and comes with a lot of “weird blokes” that I would steer clear of - and I’m a bloke! Match (Our Time) was the most productive one for me. And something else - think of your profile like a cv: change it and see what happens. And watch out for scammer profiles - they get through all the sites vetting - they get easier to spot. And hold onto your sense of self worth - above all else hold onto who you are and your own worth! Any help? 🥰